I needed you to have this.

July 2020

See you soon, DC.

May 2020

What does "awhile" even mean anymore?

February 2020

I haven’t published in a few weeks because I’ve been sitting on something I wanted to write in this header note. Then I realized that the links were…

November 2019

We’re just a little more than a week out from Thanksgiving and this year will be a quiet one for our family. Just a few weeks ago, all 11 of us…

October 2019

One thing I worry about is how little time we spend doing supposedly “New York” activities—the ones you read about in that book that made you think you…
To Read “Women run our think tanks and our museums, our biggest defense contractors, our most illustrious spy agency, our tech companies, our newsrooms…

September 2019

To Read “Queer Eye” offers a kind of simulation of wealth redistribution. But every time the Fab Five retreats from the scene, I imagine the…
My birthday was a few weeks ago and I’ve been sitting on writing a This is 35 post, mostly because I was still trying to figure out what 35 will be. I…
If you haven’t heard from me for a few weeks, it’s because I’ve been trying to squeeze in every last bit of summer. There is the big stuff: Camping. Six…

August 2019

SCENE EXT. UPPER WEST SIDE – NIGHT It’s Saturday night and the sidewalks are crowded with people milling between shops—going to a late dinner, joining…

July 2019

I could complain about the unbearable heat wave we’re all pushing through right now, but I won’t. The thing that scares me most is how frequent and…